Buttermilk Falls

The weather was perfect for going on a hike and I had heard about a waterfall and hike that I just had to see for myself.  It was extremely to get to and yet still very remote and beautiful.  We played on the rocks and wadded in the very cold water.  Tank loved going through the stream and running along the bank of the water.  He quickly became a huge soggy mess.  after we hung around the falls, we followed the path up the stream bed where we found a plaque.  The site where were standing was where a dam used to exist, with a mill, and a few other structures.  All that was left was a mound where the dam sat and you could make out stones that might have been the foundation.  If that plaque hadn't of been there I would have had no idea what had been there.  It made me think about how impermanent we are and how change is imminent.

We stopped at a bridge had a little snack and played on the bridge under the canapé that the old hard wood trees made with a blanket of ferns on the ground that caught the remainder of sun that broke through.  This setting with the blend of history gave this place interest and mystery.  We had our good time and stopped in the little town for a lunch of pizza and sandwiches.  The day was simple and made for good memories.

Idaho Love

I think I'm starting to fall in love with the Idaho Mountains.  I have always been one that enjoys nature and the outdoors.  I love different varieties of birds and flowers and here I have been overwhelmed with all of the above.  the lakes are clear and the rivers and rugged and gushing with whitewater rapids, the mountains are impressive, the air clear, crisp and dry and the people are laid back and fun.  The amount of birds that I have seen here is impressive the most brilliant was the blue bird that we saw at the top of Brundage mountain. 

Today was another wonderful day here in McCall.  It started with a swim lesson at the fish and swim club, we moved on to the game room where Grandma & Pa met up with us there to go fishing.  We fished at the pond and as we were getting our hooks baited we saw an osprey eagle dive and catch a fish.  Incredible!  We weren't so lucky with the fish so the boys moved onto the playground.  Adam and Zach played four square with Grandma & Pa and Andrew and I played bocce ball.  It was fun just soaking eachother's company up and playing with one another. 

There is a continuous theme for this summer and it is Star Wars.  Adam has fallen in love with it and haswatched all 6 epsodes several times this summer (on the plane and in the car), declared the light saber gift that he received for his birthday the best gift tat he has ever received and had to have it with him on this trip.  He also packed his brother's sabers and it has been a constant entertainment for all during this whole time.  I turned on "Star Wars the Clone Wars" for Andrew and all the boys have been mesmerized by this science fiction.  It was while they were thus engaged that Grandma and I were up in her art studio going through stuff and organizing up there.  Eventually we came down to meet up with a friend to show us where a good huckleberry patch was.  We went picking and this has become another one of the mountain life enchantments.  Even though we didn't find but just a handful it was still really fun finding a sweet delicious berry that can only be found in the wild. 

Our day ended with a Idahoan wood stacking service project.  At first Adam and Zachary didn't want to participate so I said that is fine you can just watch and before I knew it they were in the line passing wood.  They worked hard and with out a complaint they were by far the youngest helpers there.  I was proud of them for working so hard.  Poor Andrew wanted to help too but really couldn't and hung out in the back of Grandpa's truck.  It was an ok place for him until he need to go to the bathroom and couldn't get out and couldn't see me to call for help.  Kawaiso!  He got cleaned up and stayed warm inside Grandma's car.  It turned really cold and is suppose to be in the 30's tonight.  To warm up Grandpa fired up their wood pellet stove and everyone enjoyed warming up by the fire and eating popcorn. 

Independance Day

We determined that we would go to the battleship New Jersey to start off our Independence Day.  We went with the Nycz family which added a spice of fun to have Christopher with our boys.  We learned a lot about the battleship.  Most fascinating was the gun power that it has and that only one American life was ever lost during the many battles, and several wars that it was in.  I think the boys really liked laying down in the bunks that they enlisted men were assigned to and walking through the maze of passageways.  I really liked seeing the views of Philadelphia skyline from the upper decks of the ship.  I was impressed by the massive size of the guns and through its fire power has saved lives and brought peace to many more. 

Later on we went over to a friend's house where they had a huge gathering and lots of food.  Even though it is against NJ law to shoot off fireworks they do it anyway.  They must have spent $1,000 or more on fireworks and got to shoot them all off with out the cops coming.  it was about an 30min straight mortars and firecrackers. It was intense and beautiful.  I loved feeling the impact of the mortars going off against my body and seeing the explosions directly overhead.  It is great having friends that in a sense give the "finger" to the government which is just what our forefathers did in 1776.  It was a wonderful way to spend Independence Day.

Zach's 8th Birthday!!!

I feel like we have been celebration this blessed even for over a week.  It all started with his birthday party on June 24th.  It was an epic water fight with four of his friends; Stephen, Rishan, William, & Daniel.  Everyone got a gun, and a shield. The yard was equipped with refill stations and in each refill bucket was loads of water balloons.  I turned the boys lose in the yard and the rest was history.   They were having so much fun it was hard to get them to stop for food and cake.  As the boy's moms were picking up they discovered the slip'n'slide in the front yard which was a catalyst for more fun.

The next day we embarked on our journey to Cousin Camp in Charleston, SC (a 13 hour drive).  Six (fun and exhausting) days later we drove back to NJ and he very next day was Zach's actual birthday.  Zach had asked for gifts instead of a big party (Yes!) and so he got some lute!  Most of the day was spent playing with his new set of toys.  Then for dinner we went to a Hibachi Grill.  Our chief put on a good show for us.  The highlights for me was when the chief squirted in Josh's mouth what we thought was water but really sake.  I was puzzeled when I saw Josh's face go from playful to absolute disgust.  Only after he spit out the liquid did I realize what was in that bottle.  Andrew's laughs and squeals with the chiefs performance were unmatched.  His joyful sounds even got the tough, muscle shirt wearing, Jersey boys to crack a smile.  To celebrate Zachary's birthday they brought out a candle in his ice cream, lit a big sparkler under the big hood and sang happy birthday while banging on a gong and drum.  We celebrated one last time with homemade cake at home. I can't believe my little Zach is 8 years old and getting baptized.   

Cousin camp 2015

It was last Sunday evening I was talking with Kathryn and Ben and Zach were face timing that we realized we our plans to visit at the end of the summer were not going to work. Our boys were so disappointed. Ben went to bed and prayed that we would be able to come. It was while he was praying that I looked over our calendar and decided to make this week work. Ben's prayers were answered and we drove our bodies down from NJ to SC!  It was exhausting with three boys and a dog but everyone was a trooper and we got to Harris land safely.

The reunion amongst cousins was exuberantly boisterous as they all paraded around the house hugging laughing yelling and screaming. Dogs were wrestling as the boys showed off their newly acquired light sabers and epic battles immediately broke out amongs the ruckus. It was a wonderful way to be greeted and exactly what one imagines as she fights her way through bumper to bumper Virginia traffic. 

Cousin Camp day 1:

We relaxed and soaked up each other 's company. The boys played toys and read each other books.

In the afternoon we took our herd to the movie "inside out" where we ate too much popcorn and candy.

 

That evening the adults went out and left the cousins to play with a babysitter. Miles was exhausted from jumping on the trampoline with Andrew and playing the the hose so when he was put in the tub to wash up he relaxed a little too much and fell asleep. It was the cutest thing.

We enjoyed some good southern food

  

and a walk through the marsh. I was fascinated by all the little spider crabs that were along the boardwalks and in the grasses. I was impressed even more by the sunset and impressive ambiance. People here known how to enjoy all the beauty around them.

Sunday was nice except that Zach threw up in the nigh and so our plans to go the water park on Monday were put on hold.  We decided to take it easy by going to the pool.  I was my boys' first time to go to a pool for the summer.  Ben was in total disbelief at this fact and he had to scrap his jaw off the floor because they had been to the pool everyday for weeks now and it seemed impossible that someone hadn't been to a pool yet.  We stayed there 5 hours.  I was pleased at how well Andrew took to the water.  it was nothing like last year when he was so fearful of getting in the water.  We all played and had a good time.  I sat there in enjoyed the warm sun and beautiful palmetto trees.     

 

   Two for Tuesday was the deal at the water park and that meant that 50% more people were there.  we got there at a reasonable time and before the busses of kids.  We had a good time playing on the slides and in the lazy river.  Andrew went down all of the park slides including the ones that only big kids could go on.  His size continues to amaze me.  On Adam's last run down the slide he some how came out of his tube and got flipped upside down or something and he says that that was thrilling and his favorite part of the whole trip.  I'm glad to see that there is adventure in that kid.  After we came back tot he house the Ben and Zach played outside in the fort with dinosaurs and stuffed animals and chase and Adam were always playing with their lightsabers.  It was nice to see everyone getting along so well.  This is kind of why I can't resist coming down because everyone gets a long so well. 

 

Wednesday we spent at the beach.  We tried to make hand sculptures in the sand and it worked until all of the fingers broke off of the sculptures that we made. We had a good time regaurless of our pinterest fail and played in the low tide and waves.  Adam as usual was out in the waves for a long period of time.  Miles got some kids to pull him on the boggie board, Zach and Ben were playing and Chase dug an impressive hole in the sand.  Poor Andrew came down with a fever and we tried to take it ease on him.  He fell asleep on one of the boards after he helped me make volcanos in the sand.  After beinf o the beach for most of the day we grabbed pizza on the way home, ate, went to th pool, and ended our day with fireworks as the Cousin Camp Grand finale!  After fireworks the boys got to watch the spongebob movies and eat popcorn.  What Lucky Boys!!!!

 

As usual it was a blast at cousin camp 2015 and so glad that we were able to make it down to see the Harris family this summer because it almost didn't happen.

10 years old!

A few months ago Adam mentioned that he would like to have a helicopter ride for his birthday so that is what he got.  I like the idea of giving him an experience rather than a thing that would no doubt get broken and forgotten all too quickly.  I don't think I have looked forward to celebrating a birthday more than I have this one for Adam.  I secretly planned a day in the city and the helicopter ride.  His birthday was the Saturday after school ended and so it was like a kick off for the summer as well.

We followed our tradition of waking up the birthday boy and going down stairs t open presents.  He got to open the helicopter last whis was when I told hime what our plans for the day were.  He was excited.  We took the bun intot he city and walked to times square.  It was interesting experience having all of those scuzzy looking characters zero in on your child and flock to your child.  I did not stop because as soon as you do 3 or 4 more try to accost you. I let Andrew look and wave but stuck my elbows out as I clinched Andrew and Zach closer to me.  If I got pushed just a little bit more I'm afraid what words would have come out of my mouth to communicate to the phychos behind those masks that I didn't want them to come any closer to my children. 

From there we walked over to rockerfeller center where the boys quickly found the lego store.  We told them that they could pick out any lego set that they wanted and buy it with their "mom bucks" that they have been earning all through out the school year.  They were thrilled.  It didn't take them too long to pick out a lego set.  I was worried that I would be stuck toting their packages all over the city but I was mistaken.  They would have nothing but to carry their bright yellow lego bags where ere we went.   I know Adam and Zach felt the envious stares of all the kids on the subway which filled their hearts with pride.  When ever we were traveling the boxes were taken out of the bags and studied with delighted anticipation to when they could build and play. 

We made our way over to grand central station which was what I was really excited about seeing.  there we gauked at the magnificence and then enjoyed a bite to eat.  Zach and I picked out some desert and everyone enjoyed Zach's choice of the best and most giant piece of chocolate cake.  While Zach and I were getting treats for everyone Josh convinced Adam that I would be the best/most fun parent to take on the ride with him.   From there we got on a train and went in the helicopter ride. 

Harris Spring Break

Winter 2015 has been bitter cold and very grey but with the arrival of the Harris family it was Spring for me.  I believe they really did bring the good weather with them from the south and it left with the as well because as soon as Kathryn and crew left the weather turned grey again.  It was so nice to spend time and a holiday with family.  While the Harris crew was here we ate well, had daily adventures, played hard, watched some classic movies, celebrated Easter, and just all around enjoyed our time with one another.  Tank was especially sad when they left because they took his best friend with them, Lucy.  Both dogs refrained from food the day of the departure and this lasted for a few days until I took Tank to the vet.  I was fearful that he was sick and needed medical attention.  The diagnosis was that he was heart broken. 

The Harris Family arrived late Saturday night and we got to spend Sunday with them.  We had a mock Easter dinner because Boyd was going to leave early from NYC because he needed to work on Easter weekend.  We ate one of my favorite meals potatoes, ham, and beans.  As usual the adults liked it and the kids subsisted on the nutrients from the air because they ate next to nothing.  Except when we had the egg hunt then they found their eggs and gorged themselves on chocolate.  Oh to be a kid and be able to eat like that without consequences of weight gain and guilt.  It was a good day and we enjoyed being together.  Kathryn was talking about their plans for NYC and was inviting me to join them but the catch was that Josh had to go to work and it would be me with my three boys. When I took a pass Kathryn I'm sure thought "c'mon Jena, don't be a woose."  It wasn't until they had their own personal experience with the city that they understood my reasons for not going.  In short it is exhausting and nerve racking with small children.

Adam, Zach, and Andrew were constantly asking when their cousins were going to return for the two days that they were absent.  Soon they were reunited for lots of adventures to come.  As Kathryn and I were planning out our week she explained that in SC they didn't have rocks and her boys got really excited about them.  So a hike at Hackle Barney state park was a great place to fulfill the need to play with, in, jump on, throw, climb up, crawl through, and collect rocks.  The hike unexpectedly started with a play in the snow!  They Harris boys couldn't resist the call of the cold white stuff.  Kathryn was mortified at how cold it was and I thought we wouldn't make it out of the parking lot because it was quite cold and we weren't prepared for the conditions.  As we got started our bodies adjusted and the cold was forgotten.  The boys had a good time finding hiking sticks and playing a long the path.  We got to the river where we threw rocks, ate a picnic and found ourselves enchanted by the huge boulders that beckoned us up the hill.  I overheard bits and pieces of a game of stone forts and secret hiding places.  We followed a trail that took us up a waterfall and over some bridges which the kids loved.  I think the hike was my favorite activity that we did.  It was just what my soul needed after a long grey winter indoors.  I haven't been there in so long and had forgotten how much fun that little hike is.  

popcorn zoo
Wednesday we got the crew out to go to the "Popcorn Zoo" down in south jersey.  We settled on this Zoo primarily because of financial reasons and because it would be a more interactive experience for the boys.  In my mind it was a little less cool that I remembered it being but our boys thought otherwise.  We ate lunch first at their picnic site and there to greet us were peacocks.  One ate out of Ben's hand!  The boys were thrilled and more than a little distracted from eating their lunch.  We made our way into the zoo from there each boy with his own box of popcorn to feed the animals.  We saw lots of tigers, and other big cats, monkeys, bears, and typical farm animals.  It was kind of hard feeding these animals because of the fences and barriers between us and them except when we got to the sheep.  Miles fell in love with feeding the sheep and at that point that as all he wanted to do.  It was really cute to see him get so excited and share in that experience with him.  Those sheep were well loved and fed by the time we left.  Andrew got a kick out of chasing the birds and trying to catch them, I enjoyed the bears that were reaching through their fence to get popcorn, Zach said that he loved the peacocks at lunch the best, and Adam really enjoyed feeding the ponies through the trough system they had set up there.  I think the best part for everyone was just being together.  It really doesn't matter what we are doing as long as we are together. 

Sterling Hill Mine
Josh took off work on Friday and spent the day with us going to the Sterling Hill Mine up in Northern New Jersey.  Again I thought that this would be a unique to the area experience because they lack rocks where the Harris boys live.  It was another successfully enjoyable adventure for the whole crew including Josh. He said over and over at how much he enjoyed the tour and our tour guide.  I was really impressed with their collection of minerals that they had in their museum and at what it takes to get minerals from out of the earth.  I kind of had in my mind that mining was a thing of the past but I realized how important it is to everything that we use.  It was not only educational but it was just cool seeing the florescent lights of the rocks when put under the ultraviolet light and who doesn't like going into a tunnel.  Andrew was especially interested in the tracks and train cars that were in the mine and he kept on making references to Thomas the train.  Zachary and Andrew got to help simulate the dynamite explosion, Kathryn figured out that "Zoolander" was filmed there at the mine, Ben and Chase filled their pockets up with rocks 'til their hearts delight, Miles conked out,  and everyone got to get something at the mine store for $5 or less.  With everyone happy and exhausted we made our way back to the Engstromspot. 
 
General Conference
Saturday morning hit and we were exhausted.  We decided to play at the house and watch conference.  Before settling in Kathryn and I prepared to go out to get supplies for our Easter celebrations and feeding people.  As we did this I turned to Chase and asked if I could bring him back anything special.  I was thinking something along the lines of food like chocolate milk or a special snack that he would like, but he surprised me with his very thoughtful answer; "I would really like a green stuffed animal alligator."  The cute sincere way that he said it made me smile and Kathryn and I quoted it for the rest of the time that they were here.  It was nice to have a day to relax and hang out with our cousins.  The boys found the bamboo rods that I use for gardening in the back yard and those sticks turned into all sorts of props in the games that they played.  The little cabin play house hasn't been this well played with since we got it.  The cabin roof became a cool place to perch and it was often that I looked out my window to see a boy body climbing through a opening in the little cabin or a boys body hurling itself off of the roof of this little thing.  I just loved that they were outside with the dogs using their imagination and bodies.  I feel like during the winter school year they turn into little drones and it is nice to see them being their boy selves.

Easter
Happy Easter!  We hunted and died eggs, ate way too much sweets, listened to General Conference and had a nice time with family.  Easter bunny was really nice this year with candy, toys, books, and $100 MomBucks!  I love that I have my own currency. 
The morning was our traditional wake up and find where the Easter Bunny hid our baskets.  Some were easy to find and Adam's was the hardest.  Eventually all was found and they all dove into their baskets and candy.  We moved onto to breakfast and Aunt Kathryn with her southern charms made us biscuits while I cooked us up some sausage and eggs.  The breakfast reminded me of what our grandmother used to fix for us every morning that we were at her house in the summer.  Every meal was a big deal in Grandmother's kitchen.  We had so many simple good memories at their house and I hope that Kathryn's and my kiddos are creating similar memories and bonds with their cousins that we got to do.  It was because of the simple times that we spent together at their house that we have that.  I remember feeling so loved and like I could do no wrong at my grandparents house. 
The rest of the day was listening to conference and cooking and dieing easter eggs and making Swedish pastry.  That desert is by far one of my favorites and once start I just can't resist.  I blame it on the almond flavoring, man that stuff is addicting.  I made two bunny ear shaped pastries that we partook of after we had our post dinner easter egg hunt.  There as a lot of eggs and everyone was pleased and happy with their candy, balloons, and golden egg finds.  It was so nice to enjoy the holiday with family.  I'm so glad that Kathryn is as adventurous as she is and is so willing to make the sacrifice of time money and energy to see family.  She is wonderful.  I honestly feel an enlightened feeling of my soul when she was here knowing that our relationship is eternal.
That evening since it was our last night to be together we ended it with a stay up late movie night.  There was some dispute among the boys as to which movie they were going to watch so I choose for them; "E.T."  This classic delivered!  Not only did it bring back so many memories of my childhood, (Allen's E.T. sheets, and my love for reeces pieces) it was a blast to see our boys experience this movie for the first time.  The story is one that they boys really related to and when they boys took off flying on their bikes everyone's heart was captured.  Great movie.

Last day together :(
Harris' packed up to leave on Monday.  Kathryn planned to stay the night in a hotel part way through so they left about half day.  Everyone was helpful at getting stuff gathered up ready to go.  I was really impressed with how responsible Ben was.  The boys seized the day and the nice weather by playing on the trampoline and in the yard.  It was the first time in several months that we have experienced temperatures that breached 70 degrees.   Our boys felt like this "heat" was just too much to handle so the clothes came off!  At first it was just shirts but Miles took the cue and got down to his preferred attire, his "birthday suit".  Before I knew it he was running round the front yard with the dogs just as happy as could be.  That was how he said his farewell.  We sent them off with lots of hugs and long faces. 

They literally took the good weather with them because the following day it was cold and rainy.  We planned to go with friends to Liberty Science Center.  Well apparently everyone had the same idea and it took me 30 min to travel 600 feet off the parkway ramp.  Realizing that I was going to fight my through an exhausting, expensive, fruitless day I aborted the mission.  Adam was heart broken because at this point we had been in the car for hours (since we drove an extra hour to pick up my friends) and it looked like it was all for nothing.  We went to the liberty state park and had a good time playing at the park with the NYC skyline in the background and the statue of Liberty.  As soon as I caught up with the kids at the park I found Andrew saying "Oh, No!  I'm wet."  Yep he had bee in the car so long and didn't know where a bathroom was that he wet himself.  I just happened to have a pull-up, my socks that I hadn't put on yet, and a bag of clothes that I was going to donate with a pair of pajama pants in it, Ta Da! new outfit!  We played took pictures, had our picnic, and then went back to play some more.  We weren't there for very long when I heard Andrew upset again, he pooped this time.  This adventure had just expired and I was out of clothes so I cleaned him up and we were out of there with a movie to watch on our way home.  Awe love those DVD players.  Good memories and so glad that we got to share the experience with the Laskers.

Wednesday I got to hit the reset button on my house because I had my cleaning ladies coming and man after all of the fun we have had it was time to pay up.  After getting the house in order I took the boys out for lunch at their favorite restaurant "Chili's" and then to the toy store where they got to spend their Easter $ on Legos.  It was a great way to spend the rest of their spring break putting together their new toys. 
   

St. Patrick's Day with Grandad (Pictures to come)

I got a text at the end of the week from my dad asking if he could come to FHE on the following Monday night!  I was so thrilled that I could barely think of anything else the whole weekend.  It was a good thing that I was attending the annual "Scrap House Party" Friday and Saturday all day and all night and then all day.  It was a blast and I have never in my life won so many prizes and had so much fun scraping.  I'm so grateful for the chance that I had to get away for over night. 

Grandad arrived in time to give the boys snuggles and tuck them into bed.  Zach had his outfit for St. Patrick's Day all picked out; beardo with leprechaun hat, and green shirt.  Zach's excitement for this holiday always fuels me for doing something special.  This year as in the past our leprechaun left streamers all over the place and little goodies in the boy's shoes.  It was fun for the boys to make their way down stairs through the maze work of green streamers and be welcomed with special green pancakes and of course Grandad.  Like past years we had a hunt for Leprechaun gold but this year was different because the leprechaun's gold was disguised as green rocks (baking soda) and we had to wash them off in magic water (vinegar).  They droped their rocks into the "water" and green fizz was over flowing the bowl.  It was a fun day but having Grandad here to celebrate with us made it our best St. Patrick's day yet.  I made a special dinner too the green being the theme color.  Zach professed to love it but only ate the shrimp.  I think that he just love that it as green and therefore was cool.  At least the adults liked it. 

I do all of these little things and mke these special efforts and I ask my self "why"?  My answer is because I only have a limited amount of time with my children and I want to celebrate each moment that I have with them.  I hope that I create memories that they feel my love for them, so that when they look back on their childhood they will have memories of us enjoying everyday and making the most of our time.  Also simply I love the look on their faces.  I've noticed that Adam is totally on to the game of pretend but he plays along.  I wonder if I will keep up traditions even when they have grown?  Who doesn't like to get goodies in their shoes and green pancakes?  I think some of these traditions are here to stay. 

Brother Doctor

While Adam was brushing his teeth he hurt himself and as I was trying to check things out Andrew came into the bathroom with Dr. gear on and announced "I'm a doctor I'm here to help."  He looked so cute and he was truly concerned for his older brother.  It really touched my heart. 

This weekend Josh and I were reflecting on how blessed we are to have boys with a strong desire to do what is right and genuine love that they have for one another.  It is rare for them to have contention between one another.  We have our own challenges but loving each other is not one of them and for this I'm very grateful. 

 

 

Asop's Fables

After being canceled 3x's for bad weather conditions the 4th try was the charm.  Zach performed with his second grade class in an Aesop's Adventure show.  There was lots of singing and a little bit of acting.  It was a cute little program and of course the most fun for me to watch was Zach.  He had the best facial expressions through out the show he really got into some of the songs.  He is my sweetie. 

Presiden's Day Extended Weekend

This past week had been on the painful side of cold with subzero temperatures and winds that make it bone chilling.  I remember going to Rexburg ID to visit the Bednars for Christmas one year.  It was also really cold in fact one morning it was -40 and Jeff didn't go to school that day because of the cold.  We decided that since it was getting up to -20 by noon we would still go snow skiing.  WHAT?!!  I think what 0 degrees feels like here and ask myself "What were we thinking?" It was obviously cold but a dry dessert cold is so different than the wet cold that is here.  Or maybe I'm older and wimpier with my age.  Maybe a little of both.

Dispite the cold we still have gotten out and had some fun.  Friday the boys didn't have school because of teacher inservice.  I got some friends together and we went to the new SpongeBob Movie.  It is about the only movie that I didn't mind getting up and getting popcorn for.  The rest of the day we hung out with friends.   A new family moved into our ward at church and they have a 7yr old that Zach has become friends with and he played with Zach all afternoon.  It was nice getting to know them better and that Zach has a friend to play with that is his age.

Saturday was Valentine's day.  When Josh and I were deciding how we wanted to celebrate this "holiday" we decided that it would be nice to spend it as a family and have a nice dinner together.  It was just as well that we decided not to go out because there was another storm that came through.  We had a good time playing with each other and making a family favorite meal Alberskiva.  They boys received a Valentine from their Nana & Grandad that made their day because it had $5 bill inside each card.  Adam who has been trying his best to earn money couldn't have been happier about his $5 windfall.  He wanted to deposit it into this account right away so he could see his account getting a little healthier.  Zach thought it was nice too but not like his bro.  In honor of Valentines Day we had a formal dinner at the dinning room table with a nicely set table, candles, and the roses that daddy gave me as the center piece.  Through the course of the meal I realized that I have totally failed to teach my boys table manners.  So it became a teaching moment.  For me to be surrounded by all 4 of my favorite men it was a the best way to celebrate Valentine's. 

Sunday morning was iffy weather or not we wee going to be able to go to church because of the snow that had fallen through the night.  Fortunately our church doesn't start until 11:30 so we were able to go and our dinner guest were able to come.  I was really excited about having the Lasker family over.  They are new, have a boy Zach's age, a cute little girl, from the south, have lots of energy and spunk, and are going to be here long term the only con is that they live on the opposite side of the ward.  They seem cool enough for me to make the effort and it has been a really long time since I have met someone with that kind of energy.  We had them over and it was super nice to get to know them better and I look forward to more time with them.

President's Day was extremely cold but that didn't stop us from going out to the State Theater for "Jack Hanna's Live Animal show".  It was fun taking our kids to do something when their daddy was home from work.  We only parked a block away but none the less the cold bit through our clothes and any exposed skin hurt.  I was grateful to get into the building.  we found our seats and Andrew and I explored some of the activities that were set up in the lobby.  We found our way to a photo booth and had some fun.  The animals that we saw were exotic and rare.  Our favorites were: Adam -wombat that was trained to pee on Jack's hat or the bird that slammed down a lizard on a rock, Zachary, mommy & daddy - bearcat, Andrew- the baby elephant.  There were a lot of unusual animals that I didn't even know existed so it was fun and enlightening.  The rest of the day we played with guns and up in the toy room.   

Long weekend extended one more day because of another big snow storm that dumped 6-8inches.  I enjoyed my boys for one more full day.  I made them French toast, we played in the snow and gave their crazy dog a bath.  Playing in the snow was by far the highlight of the day.  They had fun playing with Tank chasing him, wresteling him, and rolling around in the white stuff.  Andrew really liked getting a "blast off" on the swings and sliding down the slide.  It was a good day. 

 

Benefits of cold weather and Snow

One of the many benefits of cold and snowy weather is getting a chance to play with forgotten of even new toys.  I got this game out for Andrew and I to play with and he really enjoyed beating my guy. Adam and Zachary were building some snap circuit with their dad and after they accomplished what ever they were doing they were quickly distracted by all the fun and Andrew and I were having.  Soon everyone had their chance at "Rock'em Sock'em."

Fasinating ice; looking, touching, feeling, smashing, creating, and playing with the impermanent crystal ICE. Often if the sun is out the boys are captivated by the wonderful snow covered front yard.  Tank comes out too, they run, play and they explore until the cold has cut through all the layers that they might be wearing or we are otherwise obligated to start our responsibilities.  Zach found himself a ice blade which imagination took him away to another land for a space of time.  I love what winter does for the imagination.

 

 

 

Another wonder of winter is snuggling.  Great Grandma Green made and sent Andrew a new quilt made with love, trains, and puppies.  He loves it and really enjoys to wrap up in it.  He comes to me with his blanket in hand and ask "Mommy, I be your baby?" When I hear that it melts my heart and I stop what ever it is I'm doing.  I wrap him up with his blanket give him a huge hug, scoop him up, pretend that he is my baby and set my 40lb. baby on the couch.  I try to soak up all the snuggles that I can get while my babies are willing to give them.  Andrew is still squishy but my older two are not that way any more.  When I can't get a snuggle from them any more I can rely on my giant lap dog. 

Snow Tubing

People often complain about the weather during the winter months but it is so much more fun to embrace it.  As the Alaskans say "There's no such thing as bad weather just bad clothing."  So as long as "ye are prepared ye shall not fear" the winter.  However getting all of those clothes on several people and making sure that everyone is properly dressed can be quite a task.  But alas everyone was geared up and prepped to face our Saturday adventure of Snow Tubing.  It was a really cold day but the sun was shinning and it felt good to spend a few hours outside enjoying the elements.  Andrew was all too excited to be dragged on his tube where ever he went and he loved the tube lift.  While on the lift he became accustom to laying on a tube, making it taxing on the person dragging the item usually me, he carefully watched his mittened hand drag in the snow making tracks all the way up the hill. We alternated going down o single tubes and the big family tubes.  We had fun watching each other get hurled down the mountain.  I really enjoyed seeing everyone having a good time.  At about the end of our three hour lift pass we were getting "done".  It wasn't until I was a few feet away from the lodge that Andrew let me know that he was really cold.  Poor little guy had ice for hands and feet.  He is a tuff guy and for that he should be rewarded (he got an airplane).  Everyone was great and I didn't hear any complaints about personal discomforts until it was time to go.  Perfect day! 

Pine Wood Derby 2015

It is that time of year again for the pine wood derby!  Not our forte.  Josh really doesn't like the whole thing and we really are not equipped with the tools to build a successful car plus it is too cold to be fiddling with this stuff in the garage.   The pack usually plans a night where they bring in saws and sander etc. but I thought there might be a problem with that and so when I was at Hobby Lobby and saw kits with the car already cut out I bought them.  It is a good thing too because Adam's car was cut wrong at the pack meeting and there were tears.  I was able to step in and tell him not to worry because I already had another car for him at home. I felt like a super mom at that moment.  We spent part of a snow day getting the cars ready and went off to the races.  On the way there I prepped the boys on how to win and how to lose so we were totally ready for anything. 

It was pretty official with registration cards and an official weights and measures officer of NJ there to officiate.  Adam and Zach raced their cars and got about middle of the results.  It was nice they won some and lost some and they were very sportsman like about the results.  It was a good experience and I'm really happy that it is over. 

Bring on the Snow

We woke up to a snowy Saturday. Finally this winter got pretty with a wash of white snow.  It was barley cold enough for it to be snow so it was s super wet which made for great snowballs, snowman, and snow fort.  We got all of those in however our snowman fell before we got  chance to take a picture of him.  Making the most of the wet snow we threw on our gear and played in the yard and since we were still relatively dry we decided to go sledding and snowboarding at the local hill.  We all got some runs in and all of us tried our skills on the snow board.  I think that Zach got the gold medal in snowboarding for the day.  He did pretty good considering the board he was riding was something that was bought at Target.  He had good balance and so did Adam.  Josh and I did it too but...let's face it we were too big for the board.  After some time Andrew was wet and I got cold so we went to the car to warm up.  I thought that the rest of the fam would be right behind us after a few more runs down the hill but I was wrong.  When I got out to do some investigation I found them at the bottom of the hill, Adam and Zach behind the cover of a snow fort and totally involved in an epic snow ball fight with Daddy.  What a cool dad!  I think Adam's winter dreams were coming true at that moment; throwing snowballs at dad with no way for dad to get me back.