Monday, July 27, 2015

Idaho Love

I think I'm starting to fall in love with the Idaho Mountains.  I have always been one that enjoys nature and the outdoors.  I love different varieties of birds and flowers and here I have been overwhelmed with all of the above.  the lakes are clear and the rivers and rugged and gushing with whitewater rapids, the mountains are impressive, the air clear, crisp and dry and the people are laid back and fun.  The amount of birds that I have seen here is impressive the most brilliant was the blue bird that we saw at the top of Brundage mountain. 

Today was another wonderful day here in McCall.  It started with a swim lesson at the fish and swim club, we moved on to the game room where Grandma & Pa met up with us there to go fishing.  We fished at the pond and as we were getting our hooks baited we saw an osprey eagle dive and catch a fish.  Incredible!  We weren't so lucky with the fish so the boys moved onto the playground.  Adam and Zach played four square with Grandma & Pa and Andrew and I played bocce ball.  It was fun just soaking eachother's company up and playing with one another. 

There is a continuous theme for this summer and it is Star Wars.  Adam has fallen in love with it and haswatched all 6 epsodes several times this summer (on the plane and in the car), declared the light saber gift that he received for his birthday the best gift tat he has ever received and had to have it with him on this trip.  He also packed his brother's sabers and it has been a constant entertainment for all during this whole time.  I turned on "Star Wars the Clone Wars" for Andrew and all the boys have been mesmerized by this science fiction.  It was while they were thus engaged that Grandma and I were up in her art studio going through stuff and organizing up there.  Eventually we came down to meet up with a friend to show us where a good huckleberry patch was.  We went picking and this has become another one of the mountain life enchantments.  Even though we didn't find but just a handful it was still really fun finding a sweet delicious berry that can only be found in the wild. 

Our day ended with a Idahoan wood stacking service project.  At first Adam and Zachary didn't want to participate so I said that is fine you can just watch and before I knew it they were in the line passing wood.  They worked hard and with out a complaint they were by far the youngest helpers there.  I was proud of them for working so hard.  Poor Andrew wanted to help too but really couldn't and hung out in the back of Grandpa's truck.  It was an ok place for him until he need to go to the bathroom and couldn't get out and couldn't see me to call for help.  Kawaiso!  He got cleaned up and stayed warm inside Grandma's car.  It turned really cold and is suppose to be in the 30's tonight.  To warm up Grandpa fired up their wood pellet stove and everyone enjoyed warming up by the fire and eating popcorn. 

Saturday, July 4, 2015

Independance Day

We determined that we would go to the battleship New Jersey to start off our Independence Day.  We went with the Nycz family which added a spice of fun to have Christopher with our boys.  We learned a lot about the battleship.  Most fascinating was the gun power that it has and that only one American life was ever lost during the many battles, and several wars that it was in.  I think the boys really liked laying down in the bunks that they enlisted men were assigned to and walking through the maze of passageways.  I really liked seeing the views of Philadelphia skyline from the upper decks of the ship.  I was impressed by the massive size of the guns and through its fire power has saved lives and brought peace to many more. 

Later on we went over to a friend's house where they had a huge gathering and lots of food.  Even though it is against NJ law to shoot off fireworks they do it anyway.  They must have spent $1,000 or more on fireworks and got to shoot them all off with out the cops coming.  it was about an 30min straight mortars and firecrackers. It was intense and beautiful.  I loved feeling the impact of the mortars going off against my body and seeing the explosions directly overhead.  It is great having friends that in a sense give the "finger" to the government which is just what our forefathers did in 1776.  It was a wonderful way to spend Independence Day.

Friday, July 3, 2015

Zach's 8th Birthday!!!

I feel like we have been celebration this blessed even for over a week.  It all started with his birthday party on June 24th.  It was an epic water fight with four of his friends; Stephen, Rishan, William, & Daniel.  Everyone got a gun, and a shield. The yard was equipped with refill stations and in each refill bucket was loads of water balloons.  I turned the boys lose in the yard and the rest was history.   They were having so much fun it was hard to get them to stop for food and cake.  As the boy's moms were picking up they discovered the slip'n'slide in the front yard which was a catalyst for more fun.

The next day we embarked on our journey to Cousin Camp in Charleston, SC (a 13 hour drive).  Six (fun and exhausting) days later we drove back to NJ and he very next day was Zach's actual birthday.  Zach had asked for gifts instead of a big party (Yes!) and so he got some lute!  Most of the day was spent playing with his new set of toys.  Then for dinner we went to a Hibachi Grill.  Our chief put on a good show for us.  The highlights for me was when the chief squirted in Josh's mouth what we thought was water but really sake.  I was puzzeled when I saw Josh's face go from playful to absolute disgust.  Only after he spit out the liquid did I realize what was in that bottle.  Andrew's laughs and squeals with the chiefs performance were unmatched.  His joyful sounds even got the tough, muscle shirt wearing, Jersey boys to crack a smile.  To celebrate Zachary's birthday they brought out a candle in his ice cream, lit a big sparkler under the big hood and sang happy birthday while banging on a gong and drum.  We celebrated one last time with homemade cake at home. I can't believe my little Zach is 8 years old and getting baptized.   

Saturday, June 27, 2015

Cousin camp 2015

It was last Sunday evening I was talking with Kathryn and Ben and Zach were face timing that we realized we our plans to visit at the end of the summer were not going to work. Our boys were so disappointed. Ben went to bed and prayed that we would be able to come. It was while he was praying that I looked over our calendar and decided to make this week work. Ben's prayers were answered and we drove our bodies down from NJ to SC!  It was exhausting with three boys and a dog but everyone was a trooper and we got to Harris land safely.
The reunion amongst cousins was exuberantly boisterous as they all paraded around the house hugging laughing yelling and screaming. Dogs were wrestling as the boys showed off their newly acquired light sabers and epic battles immediately broke out amongs the ruckus. It was a wonderful way to be greeted and exactly what one imagines as she fights her way through bumper to bumper Virginia traffic. 
Cousin Camp day 1:
We relaxed and soaked up each other 's company. The boys played toys and read each other books.
In the afternoon we took our herd to the movie "inside out" where we ate too much popcorn and candy.
 
That evening the adults went out and left the cousins to play with a babysitter. Miles was exhausted from jumping on the trampoline with Andrew and playing the the hose so when he was put in the tub to wash up he relaxed a little too much and fell asleep. It was the cutest thing.
We enjoyed some good southern food
  
and a walk through the marsh. I was fascinated by all the little spider crabs that were along the boardwalks and in the grasses. I was impressed even more by the sunset and impressive ambiance. People here known how to enjoy all the beauty around them.

Sunday was nice except that Zach threw up in the nigh and so our plans to go the water park on Monday were put on hold.  We decided to take it easy by going to the pool.  I was my boys' first time to go to a pool for the summer.  Ben was in total disbelief at this fact and he had to scrap his jaw off the floor because they had been to the pool everyday for weeks now and it seemed impossible that someone hadn't been to a pool yet.  We stayed there 5 hours.  I was pleased at how well Andrew took to the water.  it was nothing like last year when he was so fearful of getting in the water.  We all played and had a good time.  I sat there in enjoyed the warm sun and beautiful palmetto trees.     
 
   Two for Tuesday was the deal at the water park and that meant that 50% more people were there.  we got there at a reasonable time and before the busses of kids.  We had a good time playing on the slides and in the lazy river.  Andrew went down all of the park slides including the ones that only big kids could go on.  His size continues to amaze me.  On Adam's last run down the slide he some how came out of his tube and got flipped upside down or something and he says that that was thrilling and his favorite part of the whole trip.  I'm glad to see that there is adventure in that kid.  After we came back tot he house the Ben and Zach played outside in the fort with dinosaurs and stuffed animals and chase and Adam were always playing with their lightsabers.  It was nice to see everyone getting along so well.  This is kind of why I can't resist coming down because everyone gets a long so well. 
 
Wednesday we spent at the beach.  We tried to make hand sculptures in the sand and it worked until all of the fingers broke off of the sculptures that we made. We had a good time regaurless of our pinterest fail and played in the low tide and waves.  Adam as usual was out in the waves for a long period of time.  Miles got some kids to pull him on the boggie board, Zach and Ben were playing and Chase dug an impressive hole in the sand.  Poor Andrew came down with a fever and we tried to take it ease on him.  He fell asleep on one of the boards after he helped me make volcanos in the sand.  After beinf o the beach for most of the day we grabbed pizza on the way home, ate, went to th pool, and ended our day with fireworks as the Cousin Camp Grand finale!  After fireworks the boys got to watch the spongebob movies and eat popcorn.  What Lucky Boys!!!!
 
As usual it was a blast at cousin camp 2015 and so glad that we were able to make it down to see the Harris family this summer because it almost didn't happen.

Saturday, June 20, 2015

10 years old!

A few months ago Adam mentioned that he would like to have a helicopter ride for his birthday so that is what he got.  I like the idea of giving him an experience rather than a thing that would no doubt get broken and forgotten all too quickly.  I don't think I have looked forward to celebrating a birthday more than I have this one for Adam.  I secretly planned a day in the city and the helicopter ride.  His birthday was the Saturday after school ended and so it was like a kick off for the summer as well.

We followed our tradition of waking up the birthday boy and going down stairs t open presents.  He got to open the helicopter last whis was when I told hime what our plans for the day were.  He was excited.  We took the bun intot he city and walked to times square.  It was interesting experience having all of those scuzzy looking characters zero in on your child and flock to your child.  I did not stop because as soon as you do 3 or 4 more try to accost you. I let Andrew look and wave but stuck my elbows out as I clinched Andrew and Zach closer to me.  If I got pushed just a little bit more I'm afraid what words would have come out of my mouth to communicate to the phychos behind those masks that I didn't want them to come any closer to my children. 

From there we walked over to rockerfeller center where the boys quickly found the lego store.  We told them that they could pick out any lego set that they wanted and buy it with their "mom bucks" that they have been earning all through out the school year.  They were thrilled.  It didn't take them too long to pick out a lego set.  I was worried that I would be stuck toting their packages all over the city but I was mistaken.  They would have nothing but to carry their bright yellow lego bags where ere we went.   I know Adam and Zach felt the envious stares of all the kids on the subway which filled their hearts with pride.  When ever we were traveling the boxes were taken out of the bags and studied with delighted anticipation to when they could build and play. 

We made our way over to grand central station which was what I was really excited about seeing.  there we gauked at the magnificence and then enjoyed a bite to eat.  Zach and I picked out some desert and everyone enjoyed Zach's choice of the best and most giant piece of chocolate cake.  While Zach and I were getting treats for everyone Josh convinced Adam that I would be the best/most fun parent to take on the ride with him.   From there we got on a train and went in the helicopter ride. 

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Harris Spring Break

Winter 2015 has been bitter cold and very grey but with the arrival of the Harris family it was Spring for me.  I believe they really did bring the good weather with them from the south and it left with the as well because as soon as Kathryn and crew left the weather turned grey again.  It was so nice to spend time and a holiday with family.  While the Harris crew was here we ate well, had daily adventures, played hard, watched some classic movies, celebrated Easter, and just all around enjoyed our time with one another.  Tank was especially sad when they left because they took his best friend with them, Lucy.  Both dogs refrained from food the day of the departure and this lasted for a few days until I took Tank to the vet.  I was fearful that he was sick and needed medical attention.  The diagnosis was that he was heart broken. 

The Harris Family arrived late Saturday night and we got to spend Sunday with them.  We had a mock Easter dinner because Boyd was going to leave early from NYC because he needed to work on Easter weekend.  We ate one of my favorite meals potatoes, ham, and beans.  As usual the adults liked it and the kids subsisted on the nutrients from the air because they ate next to nothing.  Except when we had the egg hunt then they found their eggs and gorged themselves on chocolate.  Oh to be a kid and be able to eat like that without consequences of weight gain and guilt.  It was a good day and we enjoyed being together.  Kathryn was talking about their plans for NYC and was inviting me to join them but the catch was that Josh had to go to work and it would be me with my three boys. When I took a pass Kathryn I'm sure thought "c'mon Jena, don't be a woose."  It wasn't until they had their own personal experience with the city that they understood my reasons for not going.  In short it is exhausting and nerve racking with small children.

Adam, Zach, and Andrew were constantly asking when their cousins were going to return for the two days that they were absent.  Soon they were reunited for lots of adventures to come.  As Kathryn and I were planning out our week she explained that in SC they didn't have rocks and her boys got really excited about them.  So a hike at Hackle Barney state park was a great place to fulfill the need to play with, in, jump on, throw, climb up, crawl through, and collect rocks.  The hike unexpectedly started with a play in the snow!  They Harris boys couldn't resist the call of the cold white stuff.  Kathryn was mortified at how cold it was and I thought we wouldn't make it out of the parking lot because it was quite cold and we weren't prepared for the conditions.  As we got started our bodies adjusted and the cold was forgotten.  The boys had a good time finding hiking sticks and playing a long the path.  We got to the river where we threw rocks, ate a picnic and found ourselves enchanted by the huge boulders that beckoned us up the hill.  I overheard bits and pieces of a game of stone forts and secret hiding places.  We followed a trail that took us up a waterfall and over some bridges which the kids loved.  I think the hike was my favorite activity that we did.  It was just what my soul needed after a long grey winter indoors.  I haven't been there in so long and had forgotten how much fun that little hike is.  

popcorn zoo
Wednesday we got the crew out to go to the "Popcorn Zoo" down in south jersey.  We settled on this Zoo primarily because of financial reasons and because it would be a more interactive experience for the boys.  In my mind it was a little less cool that I remembered it being but our boys thought otherwise.  We ate lunch first at their picnic site and there to greet us were peacocks.  One ate out of Ben's hand!  The boys were thrilled and more than a little distracted from eating their lunch.  We made our way into the zoo from there each boy with his own box of popcorn to feed the animals.  We saw lots of tigers, and other big cats, monkeys, bears, and typical farm animals.  It was kind of hard feeding these animals because of the fences and barriers between us and them except when we got to the sheep.  Miles fell in love with feeding the sheep and at that point that as all he wanted to do.  It was really cute to see him get so excited and share in that experience with him.  Those sheep were well loved and fed by the time we left.  Andrew got a kick out of chasing the birds and trying to catch them, I enjoyed the bears that were reaching through their fence to get popcorn, Zach said that he loved the peacocks at lunch the best, and Adam really enjoyed feeding the ponies through the trough system they had set up there.  I think the best part for everyone was just being together.  It really doesn't matter what we are doing as long as we are together. 

Sterling Hill Mine
Josh took off work on Friday and spent the day with us going to the Sterling Hill Mine up in Northern New Jersey.  Again I thought that this would be a unique to the area experience because they lack rocks where the Harris boys live.  It was another successfully enjoyable adventure for the whole crew including Josh. He said over and over at how much he enjoyed the tour and our tour guide.  I was really impressed with their collection of minerals that they had in their museum and at what it takes to get minerals from out of the earth.  I kind of had in my mind that mining was a thing of the past but I realized how important it is to everything that we use.  It was not only educational but it was just cool seeing the florescent lights of the rocks when put under the ultraviolet light and who doesn't like going into a tunnel.  Andrew was especially interested in the tracks and train cars that were in the mine and he kept on making references to Thomas the train.  Zachary and Andrew got to help simulate the dynamite explosion, Kathryn figured out that "Zoolander" was filmed there at the mine, Ben and Chase filled their pockets up with rocks 'til their hearts delight, Miles conked out,  and everyone got to get something at the mine store for $5 or less.  With everyone happy and exhausted we made our way back to the Engstromspot. 
 
General Conference
Saturday morning hit and we were exhausted.  We decided to play at the house and watch conference.  Before settling in Kathryn and I prepared to go out to get supplies for our Easter celebrations and feeding people.  As we did this I turned to Chase and asked if I could bring him back anything special.  I was thinking something along the lines of food like chocolate milk or a special snack that he would like, but he surprised me with his very thoughtful answer; "I would really like a green stuffed animal alligator."  The cute sincere way that he said it made me smile and Kathryn and I quoted it for the rest of the time that they were here.  It was nice to have a day to relax and hang out with our cousins.  The boys found the bamboo rods that I use for gardening in the back yard and those sticks turned into all sorts of props in the games that they played.  The little cabin play house hasn't been this well played with since we got it.  The cabin roof became a cool place to perch and it was often that I looked out my window to see a boy body climbing through a opening in the little cabin or a boys body hurling itself off of the roof of this little thing.  I just loved that they were outside with the dogs using their imagination and bodies.  I feel like during the winter school year they turn into little drones and it is nice to see them being their boy selves.

Easter
Happy Easter!  We hunted and died eggs, ate way too much sweets, listened to General Conference and had a nice time with family.  Easter bunny was really nice this year with candy, toys, books, and $100 MomBucks!  I love that I have my own currency. 
The morning was our traditional wake up and find where the Easter Bunny hid our baskets.  Some were easy to find and Adam's was the hardest.  Eventually all was found and they all dove into their baskets and candy.  We moved onto to breakfast and Aunt Kathryn with her southern charms made us biscuits while I cooked us up some sausage and eggs.  The breakfast reminded me of what our grandmother used to fix for us every morning that we were at her house in the summer.  Every meal was a big deal in Grandmother's kitchen.  We had so many simple good memories at their house and I hope that Kathryn's and my kiddos are creating similar memories and bonds with their cousins that we got to do.  It was because of the simple times that we spent together at their house that we have that.  I remember feeling so loved and like I could do no wrong at my grandparents house. 
The rest of the day was listening to conference and cooking and dieing easter eggs and making Swedish pastry.  That desert is by far one of my favorites and once start I just can't resist.  I blame it on the almond flavoring, man that stuff is addicting.  I made two bunny ear shaped pastries that we partook of after we had our post dinner easter egg hunt.  There as a lot of eggs and everyone was pleased and happy with their candy, balloons, and golden egg finds.  It was so nice to enjoy the holiday with family.  I'm so glad that Kathryn is as adventurous as she is and is so willing to make the sacrifice of time money and energy to see family.  She is wonderful.  I honestly feel an enlightened feeling of my soul when she was here knowing that our relationship is eternal.
That evening since it was our last night to be together we ended it with a stay up late movie night.  There was some dispute among the boys as to which movie they were going to watch so I choose for them; "E.T."  This classic delivered!  Not only did it bring back so many memories of my childhood, (Allen's E.T. sheets, and my love for reeces pieces) it was a blast to see our boys experience this movie for the first time.  The story is one that they boys really related to and when they boys took off flying on their bikes everyone's heart was captured.  Great movie.

Last day together :(
Harris' packed up to leave on Monday.  Kathryn planned to stay the night in a hotel part way through so they left about half day.  Everyone was helpful at getting stuff gathered up ready to go.  I was really impressed with how responsible Ben was.  The boys seized the day and the nice weather by playing on the trampoline and in the yard.  It was the first time in several months that we have experienced temperatures that breached 70 degrees.   Our boys felt like this "heat" was just too much to handle so the clothes came off!  At first it was just shirts but Miles took the cue and got down to his preferred attire, his "birthday suit".  Before I knew it he was running round the front yard with the dogs just as happy as could be.  That was how he said his farewell.  We sent them off with lots of hugs and long faces. 

They literally took the good weather with them because the following day it was cold and rainy.  We planned to go with friends to Liberty Science Center.  Well apparently everyone had the same idea and it took me 30 min to travel 600 feet off the parkway ramp.  Realizing that I was going to fight my through an exhausting, expensive, fruitless day I aborted the mission.  Adam was heart broken because at this point we had been in the car for hours (since we drove an extra hour to pick up my friends) and it looked like it was all for nothing.  We went to the liberty state park and had a good time playing at the park with the NYC skyline in the background and the statue of Liberty.  As soon as I caught up with the kids at the park I found Andrew saying "Oh, No!  I'm wet."  Yep he had bee in the car so long and didn't know where a bathroom was that he wet himself.  I just happened to have a pull-up, my socks that I hadn't put on yet, and a bag of clothes that I was going to donate with a pair of pajama pants in it, Ta Da! new outfit!  We played took pictures, had our picnic, and then went back to play some more.  We weren't there for very long when I heard Andrew upset again, he pooped this time.  This adventure had just expired and I was out of clothes so I cleaned him up and we were out of there with a movie to watch on our way home.  Awe love those DVD players.  Good memories and so glad that we got to share the experience with the Laskers.

Wednesday I got to hit the reset button on my house because I had my cleaning ladies coming and man after all of the fun we have had it was time to pay up.  After getting the house in order I took the boys out for lunch at their favorite restaurant "Chili's" and then to the toy store where they got to spend their Easter $ on Legos.  It was a great way to spend the rest of their spring break putting together their new toys. 
   

Tuesday, March 17, 2015

St. Patrick's Day with Grandad (Pictures to come)

I got a text at the end of the week from my dad asking if he could come to FHE on the following Monday night!  I was so thrilled that I could barely think of anything else the whole weekend.  It was a good thing that I was attending the annual "Scrap House Party" Friday and Saturday all day and all night and then all day.  It was a blast and I have never in my life won so many prizes and had so much fun scraping.  I'm so grateful for the chance that I had to get away for over night. 

Grandad arrived in time to give the boys snuggles and tuck them into bed.  Zach had his outfit for St. Patrick's Day all picked out; beardo with leprechaun hat, and green shirt.  Zach's excitement for this holiday always fuels me for doing something special.  This year as in the past our leprechaun left streamers all over the place and little goodies in the boy's shoes.  It was fun for the boys to make their way down stairs through the maze work of green streamers and be welcomed with special green pancakes and of course Grandad.  Like past years we had a hunt for Leprechaun gold but this year was different because the leprechaun's gold was disguised as green rocks (baking soda) and we had to wash them off in magic water (vinegar).  They droped their rocks into the "water" and green fizz was over flowing the bowl.  It was a fun day but having Grandad here to celebrate with us made it our best St. Patrick's day yet.  I made a special dinner too the green being the theme color.  Zach professed to love it but only ate the shrimp.  I think that he just love that it as green and therefore was cool.  At least the adults liked it. 

I do all of these little things and mke these special efforts and I ask my self "why"?  My answer is because I only have a limited amount of time with my children and I want to celebrate each moment that I have with them.  I hope that I create memories that they feel my love for them, so that when they look back on their childhood they will have memories of us enjoying everyday and making the most of our time.  Also simply I love the look on their faces.  I've noticed that Adam is totally on to the game of pretend but he plays along.  I wonder if I will keep up traditions even when they have grown?  Who doesn't like to get goodies in their shoes and green pancakes?  I think some of these traditions are here to stay.